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Have a friend in a similiar position
Foby wrote: I just lost a close friend/love I've had for 4 years because... well it's a long story.
We've had feelings for each other during our friendship a couple of times, but not when the other felt the same. And now a while ago, we started hanging out a lot again (it's been a while since we did), and both our feelings came back. And so, we were together. But after a short time, she said that she wasn't really sure if she could be in a relationship, so we broke up. BUT! We decided that we would keep on talking and hanging out. But I knew it would be hard. And I told her that we should maybe take a break and not see each other for a while. And I feel really stupid now, because I miss her (as a friend too). But she seems to be dissapointed and sad at me, and I don't blame her. I'm dissapointed at myself too, because I know that there was a big chance of us two getting back together in a while, and now I may have screwed that up too.
(This may be very confusing, but I dunno how to write it clearly ATM, because I'm confused myself)